tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post7122715873328703507..comments2023-06-30T02:36:34.625-07:00Comments on The Deep Silence of a Long Suffering Heart: Awful Angry Ugly RantUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-274855912433248352011-05-26T08:39:42.562-07:002011-05-26T08:39:42.562-07:00I've been there too and it's a horrible fe...I've been there too and it's a horrible feeling. I went on holiday a few weeks after my miscarriage last year and that helped, although for the first few days I had that awful "What am I doing here when I should be x weeks pregnant" feeling.<br /><br />I hope you feel better for having blogged about it and vented some of those feelings. Good luck.Sushigirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15692271287979209910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-64896558872319001522011-05-23T09:14:59.585-07:002011-05-23T09:14:59.585-07:00<3<3unaffectedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01847927139783349391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-68713211031431591212011-05-22T07:25:33.161-07:002011-05-22T07:25:33.161-07:00Totally normal to be bitter and angry. I'm so ...Totally normal to be bitter and angry. I'm so sorry for your loss.<br /><br />Wishing you the best.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209567864607495587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-21445133317138278022011-05-21T21:14:58.443-07:002011-05-21T21:14:58.443-07:00Oh honey, I am so damned sorry. I am new to your b...Oh honey, I am so damned sorry. I am new to your blog so what I have to say here might be irrelevant...have you been tested for clotting disorders? The loss you described...when it happened, seeing a a heartbeat and then things going south, sound so much like the loss that got me diagnosed with a clotting disorder. If you have any questions or just need to talk, feel free to email me.<br /><br />Again, I am so damned sorry.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-89818583264379787912011-05-19T12:05:11.522-07:002011-05-19T12:05:11.522-07:00I just came across your blog and just wanted to sa...I just came across your blog and just wanted to say how sorry I anti hear about your miscarriage. I totally understand how you feel about seeing other bfp on blogs and so many successful pregnancies on facebook. Its so frustrating and you feel like that should be you! I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!B-https://www.blogger.com/profile/12390875649604629246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-89179595492841209662011-05-19T11:13:46.386-07:002011-05-19T11:13:46.386-07:00I am so sorry for your recent loss. I lost a pregn...I am so sorry for your recent loss. I lost a pregnancy last summer and have just recently felt like I was coming out of my grief. I spent a lot of time fighting my feelings because I thought I should just be over it already. It wasn't until I gave in and really let myself experience my grief that I was able to move on.<br /><br />Be good and forgiving toward yourself in your grief. Sending you good thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-61027280362631139282011-05-19T09:03:22.136-07:002011-05-19T09:03:22.136-07:00You know, you are totally ok making a post about h...You know, you are totally ok making a post about how you feel. Miscarriage affects different people in different ways. I have a few friends who had total breakdowns, and a few who were like *Shrug*, and everyone in between. You are processing the experience and allowing yourself to feel, which will allow you to recover and move forward. Not to forget, but to encorperate the experience into your life.<br /><br />That aside, the cycle after my misscarriage was the winner, and if you care to, there is a lot of research out there that states the cycle after a MC is often your most fertile. (Obviously, follow your dr's advice/your gut feeling about whether to try.) <br /><br />I relate to the no commenting on the MC blogs/forums/TWW stuff. I didn't want to think about it, I didn't want to read about it, and I even moved some MC or even pregnancy blogs into another reader to know what not to read if I wasn't up to it. <br /><br />I hope you are able to take some time to yourself and really get pampered, whatever that is to you (mani/pedi/hiking/going to the beach/lake/movies) so you can take some you time. As always, we're here to support you however you need it.3 Bed, 2 Bath, 1 Babyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06263096500619766182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-78791703092684486252011-05-19T08:03:34.046-07:002011-05-19T08:03:34.046-07:00Hugs to you. I can so relate. It's hard to rea...Hugs to you. I can so relate. It's hard to read everyones positive news when you are in pain. Hoping you feel better soon!Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096963201561831900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8982964913552952698.post-26243453887888622011-05-19T07:46:33.116-07:002011-05-19T07:46:33.116-07:00Hugs honey. You have to go through the angry part,...Hugs honey. You have to go through the angry part, its part of healing. Unfortunately I think the loss will always be with you. It does eventually get easier but you never forget. <br />Lots of love,<br />TravicaThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16514089603921948705noreply@blogger.com